17 Years

 Posted by at 12:02 am  Nick's Blog
Jan 162015

Today is a special day for us, our 17th wedding anniversary. And what a wonderful seventeen years it has been!

Terry and I had both experienced bad marriages before and neither of us was looking to get involved with anyone. In fact, when it did happen it took us both by surprise. We had known each other for about ten years, she ran a commercial glass shop that advertised in the weekly newspaper I owned and I was always impressed with both her beauty and her intelligence, not to mention the fact that she was a very nice person. We’ve all met beautiful, intelligent people that are not very nice once you get to know them. Not with Terry, she’s beautiful inside and out.

Terry always wore a ring so I assumed she was married. I was in a bad marriage and when it ended I swore I was never going to make that mistake again. Famous last words. Soon after I became single we both realized that there was a chemistry between us and an attraction that was growing. Terry also told me that she had been single for fourteen years and the reason she wore the ring was to put off anybody who showed any interest, because she had her own marriage horror stories and she wasn’t making that mistake again either!

On our first date we went to the movies and then to a 24-hour restaurant where we sat and talked until daylight. Two weeks later, our second date was at our town’s Fall Festival. At the time, I was on the board of directors of the Women’s Shelter and the town council was supposed to help our fundraiser by taking turns in a dunking booth. It was about 60 degrees at 7500 feet elevation and they all suddenly decided that falling into the cold water wasn’t dignified and backed out. So I put on a pair of swimming trunks and climbed inside.

Being the publisher of a small town newspaper means you are going to make a lot of friends and a lot of enemies. One of those friends ran the local radio station and was doing a live remote broadcast from the festival. He invited anybody who wanted to have some fun to come down and try to dunk me. And for the next three hours a long line of people were lined up throwing balls and dunking the fat guy. The price of three balls to throw kept going up and they still kept coming. The dunking booth was a canvas bag with a wire frame, and me being so short, I had to climb the frame to get back onto the seat. By the time I was done I was blue and had bloody toes from crawling up that darned canvas bag! But we had earned $3,000 for the shelter, so it was well worth it. Terry said I looked so much like a little Smurf that she felt sorry for me, so she took me home and kept me. Except for when she was in the hospital during her cancer treatment, we’ve never spent a night apart since then.

It wasn’t always easy because we both have strong personalities, and when we got together we were both in our mid-40s and pretty set in our ways. We had to learn to compromise, to communicate, and most importantly, learn to trust again. But it was worth it in so many ways. We’re not only married, we truly are best friends and are never happier than when it’s just the two of us. The first thing we say when we open our eyes in the morning is I love you, and it’s the last thing we say to each other before we fall asleep at night. It’s been a wonderful seventeen years, and I’m looking forward to many, many more together.

Happy anniversary, Terry. I love you.

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  27 Responses to “17 Years”

  1. So Beautiful….Your words of love speak such emotion…Congrats to both of you…We were married 43 years on the 14th…….Your doing what life has intended for both of you and your a beautiful shinning example of love…..Thank you for sharing this story and your whole lives everyday with all of us….

  2. What a beautiful post to read first thing in the morning!! I always enjoy your writing and this one especially. Happy Anniversary to you two love birds!! Keep up the good work, the good life and your love!

  3. You two are “Love people walking”!! Congratulations on the first 17 years! We love you guys. John and Kathy

  4. Congratulations on your anniversary to the both of you.
    Kathy and I understand where you are coming from but our meeting was under different circumstances.
    The old saying goes “If you are looking for true love you will never find it. Close your eyes and it will find your heart” Author Unknown.
    It worked for you and us.
    Be Safe and Enjoy!

    It’s about time.


  6. So there’s hope for me after all!!!! LOL Happy Anniversary you two!! Enjoy your day!!

  7. Happy Anniversary, what a great story!

  8. Great story. Congrats, may you have many more wonderful years.

  9. Happy Anniversary to both your lovely wife and you!

  10. Happy Anniversary, what a lovely story. May you have many many more. Love you guys.

  11. Happy Anniversary to both of you!! What a lovely story!!

  12. Big Congrats!!

    Love you both.

    Jan and Greg

  13. Happy anniversary to two people who are so special to not only each other, but to so many others. Wishing you and Miss Terry many more years of sharing love and life together.

  14. Congratulation Nick and Terry a true Love Story.

  15. Congratulations for your first 17 years of happiness together!

  16. Happy Anniversary to you both. May your day be magical.

  17. Happy Anniversary. Hope you have many more together.

  18. happy anniversary, you two are made for each other we love the two of you

  19. Happy Anniversary to both of you! May you experience many, many happy years together in the future.

  20. Con Grads on the seventeen. We have similar story and have been married 29 years, We know the know the story and have the same “during” and not looking for the end we want this to last forever just like you


  21. Happy Anniversary and many more !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  22. Happy Anniversary to you both!

  23. Congratulations and Happy Anniversary to both of you! You are perfect for each other!

  24. Happy Anniversary!

  25. Happy Anniversary you two!

    Makes me wish that story would come true for me some day !

  26. Congratulations to you both!! And many more years together too!! What a lovely thing to write about your wife Nick!! WONDERFUL!!

  27. Happy 17th Wedding Anniversary.
    We had our 17th last November – and we, too, are best friends. I tell Ray I’m his second and last wife!

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